Would telling a husband that he needs to be more "dominant" in the bedroom be completely at odds with traditional Christian ascesis? It seems to be counter to Theology of the Body. Would a man be scandalized to hear a priest give him this advice? Even if it were a married priest, it may still be troubling to hear this from him. Would this ingrained reaction be justified? Or would it be better regardless for a man to hear this from a married layperson?