I have two boys in the class who are very active, won't still sit on the carpet, speak out of turn, etc. and when they are called out on their behavior they often blame others. They are also big tattle tales, becoming whiners about the behavior of others. Are they merely trying to deflect attention and criticism from themselves? Are they seeking fairness? I tell them they should focus on their own behavior and not the behavior of others. I have gotten tired of having to deal with them over and over again. Is there any connection between their inability to be compliant and their whiniess?