A comment at Dalrock:

(some years ago) as a young, single Christian, i was strongly encouraged to be very ‘open’ to girls with pasts, including single mothers with children.


They need not have bothered. Most were so damaged by their poor choices it was never an issue of the single men being more accepting. Usually, the gals in these situations expressed fairly common behaviours.


1. Resentful of having been duped by their own vanity in the pua pump and dump routine, with expectations of suitors so sky high no mere mortalwould, or could, ever qualify.


2. Attitude and entitlement like you would not believe.


3. Suspicious, untrusting and inwardly afraid of all mens motives.


4. Adopt a victim role, either actively in being outspoken about what *%@#*&s men are, or in a passive, inwards focussed depessive manner.


And anyway, as an ignorant young white knighting gamma, my virtue was never really in danger. All that sermonising about staying pure should have been directed towards the church girls who sought put more tingling locales than the church scene and who got impregnated by whatever pua caught their attention.


Happily married now and using a mild version of game suited to ltrs, but if only i had known game then.