Looking at OKCupid, I have found that the word "sarcastic" show up very often in the profiles of the women who use the website, either as one of the three words they used to headline their profile or in their description of themselves. Young Uhmericans are known for being sarcastic, but why highlight this trait? It's not particularly attractive, even if it is not in excess but only "moderate." If a women were to use sarcasm with her boyfriend, one would wonder if it's a lack of respect, rather than her "normal" sense of humor showing through.